London (CNN) — It was an image that got lost on the day of Prince Philip’s funeral but was powerful enough to go viral in the days that followed — the Duchess of Cambridge captured by a photographer peering through a black veil in the back of a limousine on the way to the service. It is as regal as it is human and speaks to the royal she has become.
It’s a very different image compared to those from more than a decade earlier. The then Kate Middleton was hounded by paparazzi everywhere she went when her relationship with William was first revealed in 2004. Royal sources say it got so bad she was forced to leave London for a while.
The newspapers were obsessed with what they saw as a story of social ascent — the middle-class girl who landed her prince while at university on the rugged east coast of Scotland. She was reportedly ridiculed by William’s friends, who were said to whisper “doors to manual” behind her back — a reference to her mother’s former job as a flight attendant. It was also a jibe that glossed over Carole Middleton’s journey as an entrepreneur, someone who established a very successful business and put all her children through one of the country’s top private (and most expensive) schools. Meanwhile in the tabloid media, Catherine faced numerous cruel monikers such as “Waity Katie” due to the length of their courtship.
The coverage became less sniffy after she walked down the aisle at that blockbuster wedding 10 years ago this week.
The duchess’s media coverage has become more positive across the board and in recent months has become almost fawning. It’s often in stark contrast to how they portray her sister-in-law the Duchess of Sussex. Something media commentators have noted.
Her work — first with William and Harry to start a national conversation about mental health and later on issues around early childhood — has illustrated how she intends to use her profile as a frontline royal. When she is engaged on these topics you get a hint of her ambition for long-lasting, meaningful change and of her sometimes introverted but always passionate character.
Only when you see her off-camera and relaxed do you realize how uncomfortable she can be in the spotlight, but she’s learned she has to get out there to remain relevant. William offers advice having grown up in the spotlight but lockdown has also provided her with an opportunity to shine. She has appeared much more at ease during video calls from the comfort of her own home and without all the paraphernalia that comes with television crews.
Over the years, the couple have found something of a parity in their public relationship. Yes, William is an heir to the British throne but Catherine balances him out and has often carried the same weight of responsibilities. She also gets a similar amount of air time.
They understand the media is central in disseminating their work and, in partnership, have devised a strategy that offers a controlled view of their young family — and of Kate as a maternal figure appropriate for a future Queen — while maintaining some boundaries.
They are without doubt hands-on parents, involved in every aspect of their children’s upbringing — something we get glimpses of through their curated social media accounts. The couple are trying to balance having a private family life with an increasing royal workload to support the 95-year-old monarch. They don’t want us to see everything that goes on in their lives, but they do want to give us enough to know they are on track and will be ready to handle the top jobs when the time comes.
PHOTOS OF THE WEEK
The two new portraits were taken by British photographer Chris Floyd, who said it was “a thrill to spend some time with them” this week in the grounds of Kensington Palace, the family’s London residence.
While it’s not known how the pair celebrated their marital milestone — traditionally celebrated in the UK with gifts of tin — they did manage a little time away from the kids. On Tuesday, they got hands-on at a sustainable farm near Darlington, northern England, getting behind the wheel of a high-tech tractor and joining a discussion with local farmers on how the industry is adapting to improve its environmental impact.
The pair then headed over to The Cheesy Waffles Project, a charity that helps people with learning disabilities in the area. The project receives support from The Key — one of 26 charities chosen by the Cambridges to benefit from donations made to their Royal Wedding Charitable Gift Fund.
The couple took to Twitter on Thursday, their actual anniversary, to thank well-wishers “for the kind messages.” The tweet was accompanied with a sweet home video of the family enjoying a day out at the beach. In another shot, Princess Charlotte is seen gleefully running away from dad as Prince George walks hand-in-hand with mom. It offered a rare glimpse of the Cambridges — who are famously private about what they share of their young children — enjoying some family time.
FROM THE ROYAL VAULT
Her sons, William and Harry, have given their blessing for the dress, complete with its dramatic, 25-foot, intricately sequined train, to go on show at Kensington Palace in London from June.
Its inclusion is part of a larger temporary exhibition called “Royal Style in the Making,” which documents the relationship between fashion ateliers and royals throughout the decades.
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Ahead of their special days, we thought we’d sharing a few adorable snaps of the littlest royals.